Who am I?

Cartoon picture of Sophia Graham sat in a comfy armchair next to a fire.Sophia is an experienced sex-positive, gender-affirming, LGBTQ educator turned coach and therapist. She has been running workshops on consent, sexual empowerment and kink in the UK and Ireland since 2009. She has also facilitated support groups for women coming out as lesbian and bisexual. She is passionate about communication, negotiation and creating win-win situations.

She is excited about working with Dialectic Behaviour therapy skills training groups and creating a space for more conversations about non-monogamy.  While her 121 therapy practice is currently full, you can email her to join her waiting list, or get started with DBT skills training.

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Sophia has a BA, MA and PhD in Human Resource Management.  She has also completed a Post Graduate diploma in Counselling.  She is a professional member of The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS) and complies with their ethical code. She undertakes regular professional development, including recent training in gender and sexual diversity, polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, out of control sexual behaviour, consent, and relationship challenges around neurodiversity.

APAC approved trusted businessShe is approved by the Adult Performer Advocacy Committee (APAC) and has committed to working in line with their standards for supporting adult performers and sex workers.


Sophia mostly works online, using facetime, skype or zoom.  At the moment her practice is full, but she has a waiting list that you can join if you wish to. You can contact her using the details on her contact page.