Who am I?

Cartoon picture of Sophia Graham sat in a comfy armchair next to a fire.Sophia is an experienced sex-positive, gender-affirming, LGBTQ educator turned coach. She has been running workshops on consent, sexual empowerment and kink in the UK and Ireland since 2009. She has also facilitated support groups for women coming out as lesbian and bisexual. She is passionate about communication, negotiation and creating win-win situations.

She likes to think of her work as straight friendly, since it focuses on building connection and trusting, sustainable partnerships rather than the gender or sexuality of the individuals involved.  While most clients are non-monogamous, kinky or queer; more traditional couples and individuals also appreciate her open minded approach.

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Sophia has a BA, MA and PhD in Human Resource Management.  She has also completed a Post Graduate Certificate in Education, a Post Graduate Certificate in Counselling and will soon have completed her counselling Msc.  She is a professional member of The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS) and complies with their ethical code. She undertakes regular professional development, including recent training in gender and sexual diversity, polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, out of control sexual behaviour, consent, and relationship challenges around neurodiversity.

Sophia mostly works online, using facetime, skype or zoom.  She is committed to counseling being accessible to people on low and medium incomes, so sessions are offered on a sliding scale basis starting at £20. You can find her fee scale here.

If you would like to work with me, you can send me a message from my contact page, or just book a free 30 minute ‘get to know me’ session here.