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Just because your desires and expectations are more commonplace, doesn’t mean they are more valid than mine.

Large text saying WE above ME. Within these words are a series of other words in smaller text.

A good friend of mine has been exploring her tantric side.  She met someone on a tantra course and really enjoyed spending time with him. She loved the long walks, reading books to him and increasingly intimate connection and cuddles. She loved holding hands, shared meals and conversations that included deep vulnerability. From the outset, …

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Approaching relationships and connections with others queerly, and understanding them within the framework of queer theory or activism.

It isn’t really possible to give a few line introduction to queer theory because it is a large and diverse field. Nevertheless there are a couple of concepts that are really important, and that matter to engaging in relationship queering. These are: 1) We are raised with particular ideas of what constitutes maleness, femaleness and …

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Aging queerly

Picture of two hands, one with a gold ring on the ring finger.

The common understanding used to be that people’s life experience wasn’t terribly important in providing them with residential and non residential care later in life.