In the summer of 2016, I presented a workshop at Bicon on how to write your own user manual – inspired by the Cunning Minx podcast on the subject and MJ Barker and Justin Hancock Make Your Own Relationship User Guide zine. The participants of the workshop kindly agreed to let me upload pictures of […]
Getting started with your user manual Read More »
The user manual is a concept that has been around in the poly community for several years. It is the idea that you could have a document that offers people an insight into how you work.
User manuals, an introduction. Read More »
The focus on health in relation to sex has got inextricably linked with two things. Not getting a transmittable infection and not getting pregnant. But these things should not be the limit of what sexual health is all about. So, why do we think they are?
What is sexual health? Read More »
Breakup plans are all about leaving relationships in a way that is kind, considerate and leaves everyone’s dignity intact. Working out how to design your own plan that works for the individuals that you are is central to knowing how to initiate, receive and work your way through a breakup
Five things to think about when you make a breakup plan with someone you’re dating Read More »
In the first flush of new love, the prospect of planning your breakup may seem like a terrible idea. However counter-intuitive it may sound, it is an excellent time to figure out what you both need and want if your relationship needs to end or change shape dramatically.
Five reasons to pre-plan your breakup Read More »
