The last post outlined what self-consent is all about. This post dives into what makes it so hard. The practice of self-consent—the radical act of attuning to and honoring your deepest needs, desires, and boundaries—should, in theory, feel simple. It is the wisdom within, guiding you toward a life of integrity and authentic connection. Yet, […]
The Invisible Walls: What Gets in the Way of Self-Consent? Read More »
Seeing self consent as a set of skills that you can develop allows for the possibility that you can change your own self knowledge and response. Here are some skills to start with
Learning self consent by building skills Read More »
How has this pandemic changed your perspective on socialising? Has it affecting what you want to do? With whom? How you feel after?
A period of adjustment Read More »
I love to find different ways of exploring my sexuality because each new approach seems to bring up new desires, new perspectives or new ways of talking about what I want with people I enjoy sex with. I delight in that exploration, especially when it increases my connection with the people I love. This approach
Negotiating sex (and kink): map your erotic values Read More »
Over the last two weeks, lots of my clients have been telling me that they are having trouble with the change of pace that has been forced on every one that isn�t an �essential� worker. For many people, this means moving from a 9-5 routine to having enormous amounts of free time, but no activities
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