The wheel of consent is a revolutionary tool, and there is no way I could possibly explain it better than Betty Martin does here. Effectively the wheel of consent, as you see above, pulls apart any instance of touch into two axes. The first is about who is doing the touch, the second is about
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This series talks about different ways to start negotiating sex, kink and sensuality.
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For most of us, a part of life is having to do difficult things that in an ideal world we would rather aviod.� The last post �acknowledged that sometimes it can be impossible to avoid things we don’t want to do. This one offers an exercise for working out how to look after yourself when
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Treating ourselves consensually isn�t always about avoiding the things our bodies say a loud �no� to. Afterall, sometimes we just have to do things we don�t want to, and sometimes the alternative is more unappealing. �We can find things difficult and unpleasant and still give our informed consent to them. Nevertheless, working out that you�re
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If you have spent time working through this week�s posts, then you will have the experience of writing, imagining and doing things while tuning into your body�s response. Today�s task is about working out how to fit that awareness into your wider life. This means making sure that a self consent practice works for you.
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