It is impossible to negotiate sex, kink or sensuality without a degree of emotional risk and sharing porn with a partner is no exception. Telling someone else that you are into particular sexual or kinky activities can be scary and difficult, so however you decide to do it, give yourself some self-care around it. More […]
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This series talks about different ways to start negotiating sex, kink and sensuality.
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A good friend of mine has been exploring her tantric side. She met someone on a tantra course and really enjoyed spending time with him. She loved the long walks, reading books to him and increasingly intimate connection and cuddles. She loved holding hands, shared meals and conversations that included deep vulnerability. From the outset,
Having sung the praises of lube in the last post, it seems a good idea to talk about the different kinds and what to look for. Most people are aware of water and silicone based lubricants. These are great for a range of situations, but there are also some people that prefer to use oil
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I discovered lube early in my romantic life, much to my delight. I found it wonderful in all kinds of sex, solo and partnered. I’d managed to avoid the messages that it was somehow a bad thing to need/want lube when having sex with other people, that is until I reached the queer community. Suddenly
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